Exclusive - Bhabi Ji Ghar Par Hai's Soma Rathod aka Amma Ji recalls getting divorce at 32; says 'It was a turning point in my life, I suddenly found myself alone, rebuilding my life from scratch'

Actress Soma Rathod, known for her impeccable comic timing and powerhouse performances, continues to entertain audiences as the feisty and endearing Amma Ji in popular sitcom Bhabi Ji Ghar Par Hai. In this interview, she reflects on her journey in the entertainment industry, overcoming personal struggles, embracing motherhood in a unique way, and finding joy in comedy.
You have been in the industry for quite some time. How would you describe your journey?
My journey has been a rollercoaster ride, filled with struggles, perseverance, and rewarding moments. Coming from a non-filmy background, I had no godfather to guide me, but I always believed in my talent. Early on, I faced several rejections, primarily because of my weight. The industry has its set norms for how an actress should look, and breaking through those barriers was tough. However, I embraced my body and my talent, and eventually, opportunities started coming my way. Today, playing Amma Ji has given me immense recognition and love from the audience, and that makes every struggle worth it.
You play the role of an elderly woman on screen, but in reality, you are much younger. Was it a difficult choice to make?
Initially, I was hesitant because I was only in my mid-30s when I took up this role. But I saw it as a challenge and an opportunity. Playing Amma Ji has been one of the best decisions of my career. The character has so many layers—she is strict, loving, humorous, and emotional all at once. It has allowed me to explore my comic side, and the audience’s overwhelming response made me forget all the age-gap concerns.
You went through a tough phase after your divorce at 32. How did you overcome that period?
Divorce was a turning point in my life. At 32, I suddenly found myself alone, rebuilding my life from scratch. It was an emotionally draining time, but it also made me stronger. Financial struggles, emotional turmoil, and societal judgments were all part of the journey. But instead of breaking down, I chose to focus on my career and passion. Work became my escape and my therapy. I learned to stand on my own feet, and that resilience is what defines me today.
Unlike typical saas-bahu relationships seen on television, Amma Ji shares a warm and supportive bond with Angoori. How do you feel about portraying such a rare equation on screen?
Absolutely. When I first took on the role of Amma Ji, I wanted to bring something fresh to the typical saas-bahu dynamic. Instead of the usual conflicts, Amma Ji genuinely loves and supports Angoori. She may be strict with her son Manmohan, but with Angoori, she is more of a guide and protector. This bond feels natural because, in real life too, not all saas-bahu relationships are filled with drama. Many are built on love and mutual respect. I enjoy portraying this equation, and I think that’s one of the reasons why audiences connect with it so much. Viewers often tell me they wish they had a saas like Amma Ji, and that makes me really happy.
You are a single mother. Tell us about your family.
Yes. I am a proud mother to my wonderful son and three adorable dogs. They are all my babies, my family. After my divorce, life took an unexpected turn, but my son became my biggest source of strength and motivation. At the same time, adopting dogs filled my home with even more unconditional love and joy. Their playful energy and pure affection have been a blessing. People often ask me why I didn’t remarry, and my answer is simple: happiness comes in different forms. My son and my dogs complete my world, giving me all the love and companionship I need.
What is your secret to maintaining your high energy levels and enthusiasm?
I believe happiness is the key. When you are content from within, it reflects on the outside. I follow a simple routine of eating healthy, staying active, and surrounding myself with positivity. Of course, my dogs play a big role in keeping me energetic. Their playful nature keeps me on my toes! Also, being part of a comedy show helps; laughter is the best therapy.
How has been your experience of working in a sitcom like Bhabi Ji Ghar Par Hai?
It has been incredible! Comedy is not easy, but it is the most fulfilling genre. Playing Amma Ji has made me a household name. The best part is the audience’s connection with the character. People come up to me and say, 'Amma Ji jaisi saas sabko mile', and that kind of love is priceless. I also cherish the camaraderie with my co-stars; we are like a family on set.